To: i did breakup with my bf nd i dont know i m right or i m wrong. Me: He was an asshole. As he did not spend enough time with you, he was using you – like “why buy a cow when you get the milk free” and nobody needs a boyfriend like that. Don’t look back – don’t accept him into your life again, look around for a real guy to be your boyfriend for all of the right reasons who wants to be with you as much as possible. Good Luck.